Jealousy and Friends: The Life of a 6-Year-Old

Posted on Feb 24, 2010 in Children, Parenting, Relationships

My 6-year-old daughter, Tova, came to me last week in tears after her “besty,” Sophia, got mad at her for playing with another a little girl. Tova started crying as soon as the automatic door on our minivan slid shut, and when the snot started coming out of her nose, I knew it was serious. Tova is a confident and happy girl with a lot of friends. (A Sagittarius, she’s pretty easygoing and always ready for a party.) What she...

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Tiger Should Focus on Family, Not His Brand

Posted on Feb 20, 2010 in Celebrities in the News, Marriage, Relationships, Television

Tiger Woods was spot-on when he said, “Every one of you has good reason to be critical of me.” Dr. Michelle Golland: Watching him make his on-air statement, I saw a father and son who is truly broken. Getting in-patient treatment is no easy road — especially for someone like Tiger, who in the days prior to entering treatment was still trying to cover his tracks and keep his own lies going. Tiger’s in recovery all right...

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Jenny Sanford: A Portrait of Grace and Dignity

Posted on Feb 11, 2010 in Celebrities in the News, Marriage, Relationships, Television

When I first saw Governor Sanford say his mistress was his “soul mate,” I knew that the union between Jenny Sanford and her soon-to-be-ex-husband would not be able to last. I felt the pain of humiliation that she must have experienced in that horribly public moment of admission. As women, we can recover from a sexual liaison with little emotional connection much easier than from an affair of the heart characterized by deep emotional...

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Heidi Montag and Her Mom: A Big Lesson

Posted on Feb 8, 2010 in Celebrities in the News, Children, Family, Relationships, Television

Mothers and daughters relationships are complicated. We love each other, we hate each other, we want to be closer and we can’t stand being smothered. What we want and what we have don’t always add up for us or if it adds up it doesn’t feel like we thought it would. We often have anger mixed with love and joy surrounded by disappointment. Like I said it is complicated, very complicated. Look at Heidi Montag and her mom Darlene...

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What Will Happen to John Edwards’ Children?

Posted on Jan 27, 2010 in Celebrities in the News, Children, Family, Marriage, Parenting, Relationships, Television

The recent and long overdue admission by John Edwards to fathering a baby with mistress Rielle Hunter has certainly come at a high price, especially in light of his lack of integrity, honesty, and humility about his infidelity. While I do believe that we can repair many issues in our marriages (including affairs), this can only be accomplished if the culpable party is truly honest. The pain and damage Edwards has inflicted upon his older...

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Cheaters, Narcissists and Sex Addicts, OH MY!

Posted on Dec 14, 2009 in Celebrities in the News, Marriage, Relationships, Sex, Television

Let’s face it –Tiger is not just a husband who is in a challenged marriage, but he is a serial cheater. Dr. Michelle Golland: In my practice where I see couples dealing with infidelity, they fall into two categories. 1) An infidelity as a symptom of a marriage in distress. 2) Serial cheating, where the issues involve a marriage in distress and the serial cheater’s deeper emotional problems including sexual addiction and an...

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